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He cheated on me and we’re trying to make it work, but it’s just not the same anymore. Will it ever be okay? Sure it will, just not with him. Will you please comment on the recent media interest in and...
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If a guy cheats on you once, why does it mean he’ll cheat again? What if he learns his mistake and regrets it? Regret is a very poor indicator of whether someone will repeat the same mistake. When it...
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Marriage is supposed to be “until death do you part.” Well, what about if your partner is chronically depressed and not attempting to better the situation without your relentless urging for a which he...
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What are your thoughts on SB 227? Should anything be mandated that’s not 100% safe or effective with no liability? Sorry to burst your insufferably self-absorbed bubble, but you aren’t special, your...
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Why do I feel like love is exclusionary? Because you’re not in it. Coketalk, give me the crash course on letting go of a relationship that pulled you out of suicidal depression, then turned into severe...
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I bought a dildo that’s not necessarily too big, but too rigid. I can’t use it and I can’t return it, obviously. Any ideas? Maybe something decorative. Go find one of those bottle opener/corkscrew...
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I have had numerous men tell me in so many words that I’m unlovable. It’s clear they think I’m smart, fun, pretty, etc, but I don’t evoke an emotional response in them. How do I interpret this? How do...
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How do I ease my emotional pain without: drinking, doing drugs, overeating, or buying shit I don’t need? Exercise, meditation, therapy, or any number of overt acts of self-care. Why is it so easy to...
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True or false: If you truly love someone, being faithful is easy. False. If you truly have integrity, being faithful is easy. Do not confuse love and integrity. Love is just an emotional state, and...
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the more time passes that frank ocean doesn’t release anything, the more pressure he puts on himself to make sure the albums “perfect” and the less likely he is to release anything…..please say it...
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Sometimes I think you’re a product and consumer of the system as much as anyone is. Of course I am. Just because I understand systems theory, that doesn’t mean I’ve transcended the system. I enjoy air...
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The major I’m pursuing in college is an individualized study, meaning I can essentially create my own major. My question for you: what would coquette do? I would create a Bachelor of Science in...
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My boyfriend is part of said “ever-growing man-child demographic.” Can they ever become men? What would be the point? I have my first counseling session tomorrow and I’m nervous. I’m terrified of being...
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Why am I so afraid to be mad at my boyfriend? You are mad at him. You’re afraid of something else. I had sex with a sleazy guy in the bathroom at a party 10 minutes after meeting him. It didn’t hurt...
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Are you as fucking sick of this “Cool” Pope shit as I am? Congratulations your organization advanced into the early 20th century. Meh. I don’t mind the cool pope. I mean sure, the Catholic Church is a...
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He said he loved me. Then he left. What to do? Have some breakfast. Why do I measure my self worth by the quality of men that I date? Because you live by an unspoken rule that the value of a woman is...
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What if a democrat isn’t elected? America will double down on its perpetual state of war, the wealth gap will widen, and perhaps worst of all, the Supreme Court will get filled up with a supermajority...
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Whats the difference between embracing your vulnerability and being a total wimp? Those two things are completely unrelated. I think maybe you’re categorically misunderstanding what it means to embrace...
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I bought myself a new vibrator. How do I responsibly dispose of my old one? It’s a fucking vibrator, not a spent fuel rod from a nuclear reactor. Just throw the damn thing away. I’m becoming the person...
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Is it actually possible that a Republican will win? Of course it’s possible. (Don’t sleep on John Kasich. Watch what happens when people start voting in actual primaries. He’s gonna surge, and he’s...
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